Throughout history, adultery has been rampant and noteworthy. Many famous men, ranging from actors to presidents, have been rumored (or in some cases, openly caught) to be cheating on their spouses with one or many different women at a time. This factoid has led many sexual researchers to conclude that male polygamy might be innate, meaning that there might never be a way to stop men from prowling around.

In the past two decades, women have decided to join in the fun, bringing the number of relationships ended due to cheating to almost even. In the same breath, many a man has been heartbroken due to his woman going astray, and even worse, many a man has lost his mind worrying if his woman is going astray, even if she isn’t.

There might come a time in your relationship where your woman decides she wants to fool around with someone else; there might never come a time where your woman wants to sample “other meats”. And, since men in relationships always seem to need a heads-up on what is and what isn’t considered cheating, I’ve decided to put in my two cents.

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I’m not a very firm believer in codes-of-conduct; all laws should have flexibility for interpretation.

These “commandments” are not commands; they are understood truths amongst the many, many exceptional men around the world.

While you may not agree with the premise of some of these statements, take them seriously; they could be what turns you from an “Average Joe” to an “Exceptional (Your Name Here)”.

I’m not getting married or having children. I made that decision a long time ago. For some people, maybe marriage is happiness. You know… having someone there when you come home from work. Seeing the kiddies running around the crib, causing a ruckus. Going to church every Sunday. Mowing the lawn in the spring. Complacency. Sounds good to some, I assume.

Many of us spend years trying to find “the one”, when in reality, there is no such thing. Reality is the person you marry is going to fit the following criteria: lives within a certain physical proximity, has somewhat of an interest in things similar to you, and has a similar goal to get married and have children, plus, and here’s the kicker: You have physically met the person.

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It’s really not a fair fight. Not at all. Men wake up in the morning, shower (sometimes), put on clothes, maybe put some product in their hair (more times than not we just throw on a hat), and then leave the house. Women wake up, shower, go through their entire wardrobe to find the right outfit, spend an hour doing their hair, administer make-up to mask flaws, and then (finally) after they check themselves 30 times in the mirror, they leave the house.

The obvious distinction between the two genders is the acceptance of make-up usage. Make-up, to women, is like water to everyone: Without it, they cannot survive. Most women, without make-up, look a lot less desirable, and in the never-ending battle amongst women to out-pretty one another, make-up is a necessity.

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Mind you: I got this idea from reading some of David DeAngelo’s stuff. The idea is somewhat stolen, but with my own personal twist on it.

There are two types of men, in regard to women: the lover and the provider. You can exhibit qualities of both, but you cannot be both. In advance, I fit more of the “lover” criteria. You’ll see why in a moment.

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