If you’re having trouble with meeting new women, perusing the internet is a very viable option, especially if you know what you’re doing.

Take these tips into consideration when planning out your online pickup assault; the better your presentation, the more likely you are to meet a quality woman from any of the many sources available to you.

Have an accurate main photo

Don’t bitch about not being attractive. Face the reality that most men are average looking and all you really need is one real good main photo to pull women in.

No main photos with friends or of other random things. Your main photo needs to be of you, whether it be a professional head shot or a photo of you sitting like a mope at the airport waiting for your plane.

Don’t attempt to use someone else’s photo to pull women in; it doesn’t work. Plus, it automatically establishes that you’re a liar and how do you pull yourself out of that hole?

Avoid sounding autobiographical

No need to tell women you were a spelling bee champion at age of 10, you went on to Princeton, and now you work at a law firm. That isn’t real bait to lure a woman in (besides a gold-digger, of course). You should focus your content toward developing an aura, content that says “I have things going for me and you should want to be a part of my world” (not in those words verbatim, but something close to it).

Some brief things to avoid:

• Don’t mention what you do for a living.
• Don’t mention anything about your family.
• Don’t mention anything that sounds directly promotional (“I’m a caring, loving person”, “I’m a great listener”, etc.)

Pull her in and captivate her

Give her a reason to say hello. Say something opinionated and different. If she already finds you attractive, she needs to find something about you that makes her want to know more. If you sound like the typical guy (read the “Worst About Me” sections to get an example), she could likely group you with every other guy, and as you already know, you don’t want to be like every other guy.

Examples include:

• Talk about one specific interest in your life, something you’re an expert about. She might not have no knowledge of that topic, but might have an outside interest that could help develop your conversation with her.
• Acknowledge your interest in particular types of women, without mentioning general attractiveness. Be selective. If you want a low-maintenance chick, acknowledge that. If you like women who enjoy playing sports, let it be known.

Just avoid making your profile sound too over-the-top. Women are looking for men, not politicians. She doesn’t need to hear your opinion on everything on your profile. Being opinionated is excellent; being obnoxious isn’t. Keep it minimal, but appealing.

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